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Friday, December 31, 2010

revelations and resolutions.

i have come to realize that being a virgin sucks. (go figure)
while i have not minded staying a virgin for so long, i do notice that i complain to myself a lot. "why am i still a virgin?" "why can't i find a girl?" and other nagging questions i pose to myself.

rather than complaining, i will make a resolution: to further better myself in my interactions with women.

i seriously need to stop being so shy in person.
there is another thing, i guess you can call this a two part resolution.

i want to get rid of this notion of a's just something that we pose to ourselves to get ourselves over the proverbial hump of a new year.

if you were serious about bettering yourself you wouldn't have waited until a new year to start doing whatever it was you set out to do for yourself.

let's just have a set of goals and slowly chip away at them. not only will it be more satisfying when you finally do reach your final destination but you won't be cheating or lying to yourself.

so with that said, i bid you all a happy new year! i wish you all good health and happiness in the coming year.

goodbye 2010, bring on 2011!

-nyc virgin

"New Year's is a harmless annual institution, of no particular use to anybody save as a scapegoat for promiscuous drunks, and friendly calls and humbug resolutions." -Mark Twain

Thursday, December 30, 2010

another reason to masturbate

another great blog post by my friends over at

here are the health benefits to masturbation...

follow the link to the cam4 blog:
article as shown on the cam4 site.

"Health Benefits of Jerking Off

Here is a breakdown of how masturbation can be beneficial to both your physical and emotional health. There is no credible scientific or medical evidence that manual masturbation is damaging to either one’s mental or physical health.

In general the act of masturbating can:

* Relieve insomnia
* Stimulate the immune system to help build up resistance to common infections.
* Improve blood circulation.
* Release mood elevating hormones
* Reduce the occurrence embarrassing spontaneous erections for teen males
* Reduce the number of unwanted wet dreams for young men
* Relieve menstrual cramps

It is held in many mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self-worth.

Masturbation in males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer.

Masturbation can also be particularly useful in relationships where one partner wants more sex than the other—in which case masturbation provides an outlet for the unsatisfied partner.

Solitary masturbation carries no risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. However mutual masturbation involving both a man and a woman can result in pregnancy only if semen contacts the vulva.

The only side effects recorded are that repeated masturbation may result in tiredness or soreness. Notice that there is nothing on this list that says anything about going blind or being struck by lightening. The term masturbation has always conjured up visions of damnation, self-defilement, mental illness and poor health. Of course nothing could be further from the truth.

The built-in notion of shame and uncleanliness implied by the word has literally given masturbation a bad name—even though medical authorities have established for decades that masturbation causes no physical or mental harm to adults or children.

Even the word masturbation is in itself an expression of ancient philosophical distaste for the act as it is a combination of f two Latin words, manus (hand) and stuprare (defile), thus “to defile with the hand.”

For men who are frequent masturbators, the volume of ejaculate that they produce is temporarily reduced after multiple ejaculations until normal seminal volume is regained in a day or so.

Perhaps the most common negative side effect is the guilt that people from a socially conservative or religious background and other sensitive experience during or after masturbation.

The fact that this important source of sexual pleasure is still regarded by some with guilt and anxiety is partly due to ignorance of the fact that masturbation is not harmful and partly due to centuries of religious teaching that the act is a one-way ticket to Hell. Shame about masturbation is particularly prevalent among women who are often taught that their bodies are dirty and shameful well before the onset of puberty.

Screw that. Go for it!

Happy Endings. "

very insightful stuff.
if you haven't checked cam4 out yet please do so...i am in love with the site. <3 =)

now if you will excuse me, i think i am going to go off and masturbate myself now!

Wednesday, December 29, 2010


well i hope you all had a great christmas.
i sure had a busy holiday, i feel like i may have gained a few pounds(to be honest, i have :[ it was a nonstop eating festival)
i haven't been sleeping well, not sure why as i have been totally spent and lack any energy during the day. i feel like if i truly go to bed and get a good night's sleep, i could probably sleep for 3 days straight.

to top things off this motherfucking blizzard!
it sure was fun driving with near no visibility with cars who shouldn't even be out in this weather. (please if you plan on driving in a blizzard, get a 4x4/awd capable vehicle)
the shoveling...self explanatory.

sure the aftermath of the holidays may be over, but wait we have new year's coming up...whoop dee doo.

any resolutions come to mind?

i shall share mine with you soon, for now back to work!

fuck, i am horny...still a virgin. :\

Thursday, December 23, 2010

almost on the eve of christmas!

hello guys,

i apologize for going so long without posting anything but my life has been pretty hectic lately. just finished up with my final work of the semester this afternoon and i am already back at work tying up some loose ends before the holiday starts. i think i have been averaging 3 hours of sleep per night...i feel and look like a wreck.

this christmas all i want is some rest, and rest i shall get...i will be staying in and away from the cold. please wake me up when it's 2011. =)
kidding aside i really hope to have a fresh start in 2011, i have had my share of ups and downs this year but overall i think 2010 was amazing!

i bid you all a merry christmas and happy holidays!

-nyc virgin

Monday, December 13, 2010

finals week.

it's going to be a busy week for me as i have my upcoming finals, mix that in with work and it's just going to be hectic.

i will try to update when i have some free time.

for now just imagine "Chestnuts Roasting On An Open Fire" performed by the late great Nat King Cole playing in the background.

ah doesn't that bring you warm thoughts and wishes?


stay tuned for a special guest post from my friend over at the awesomeslut blog. ;]

Friday, December 10, 2010

gloomy days

wow it's december already...sure doesn't feel like it huh?

with christmas looming over us in just about 2 weeks i can't help but feel a bit down.
if you know me i will be the last guy to admit that things aren't so peachy because i try to go on about with a positive outlook in my life. but really there is so much going on around this world that can bring us down. the media does nothing but report about the negative aspects of our human nature. we are surrounded by failing economy, people are unemployed and taking advantage of the programs that the government has set up to help the truly needy. it's sad, why are humans such selfish and ego-maniacal creatures?

i'd like to issue a challenge to all of you out there.
instead of thinking about presents you want this christmas, think about contributing to your local community, whether it be through some form of charitable donation or volunteer work.

instead going out to shop for your ipads, iphones, playstation 3s, xbox kinects, kindles, nooks, laptops, hdtv 3d tvs...just save your money. these things are just luxuries, not necessities in life.
they say, if you give a little you will get back much more in return.

i believe in good karma, spread a little love this holiday season and make others happy and you shall receive the same love in return.

well i guess that's all i have to say on this matter.

happy holidays!

-nyc virgin

Thursday, December 9, 2010


its fucking freezing today!

what i wouldn't give for a warm naked female to share the covers with me today.
seriously i need to stop dreaming of romping with women, the end results in a stained pair of boxer shorts and more sexual frustration as the day drags on.

what's a guy to do?
my patience is really wearing thin.

off to class right now, more to come later!

-nyc virgin

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

i'm back!

sorry for the long break from writing, i apologize for not being able to update my blog. i have been sick and without internet connection since the thanksgiving break.

but i am on the mend and feeling much better now!
i am ready to keep updating daily for those of you who want a daily dose of the nyc virgin.

i know this is long overdue, but how was everyone's thanksgiving?
i hope you all had a wonderful time with your family and friends, i spent my turkey day sick in bed, i really didn't get a chance to enjoy the turkey at home.
with that said, did anyone go black friday shopping? i bet a lot of you waited in the rain and cold for a chance at those large hdtvs and other electronics and etc.

the holidays, what does it stand for anymore? are we all so consumed with the commercial aspect of the holidays? why is everyone obsessed with holiday shopping when our economy is down proverbial shit pipe? i urge all of you to just enjoy the company around you this holiday season and cherish your loved ones because life is very unpredictable. once you spend time with your family and friends you will forget about all that shopping that has us going broke for the holiday season. you don't need to spend an exorbitant money to have a great time together with friends.

on another note, i want to coin a new term for women who think that they are above the world and other men. those nasty girls who have the looks but have no personality at all. you girl are a..."bitchot." (pronounced bitch-hot)

that is all for now peeps, stay tuned for more!
by the way, i hope you guys enjoyed memphis skies' post...thank you for filling in for me while i was gone.

-nyc virgin

p.s. i had another fucking wet dream this boxers were soaked in my cum, definitely not a pleasant experience to wake up to despite the orgasm and ejaculation part.


Friday, December 3, 2010

Hello there...

The ill NYCVirgin handed me the reins for this time around and asked me to write a little something-something for his readers curious about his sexual virgin. As daunting of a challenge this is, I was happy to accept his offer and I am willing to share a part of my sexual history/adventures with you.

I’m a 24-year-old woman trying to live out my dream in New York City. Unlike the NYCV, I am not a virgin (I only lost my virginity this past May) but I am still new to the sex game, only doing the deed five times. I’m still shy, don’t feel 100% fantastic with my body and half of the time, don’t know what to do with a naked man standing in front of me. I didn’t lose my virginity in the wisest (or safest) of ways- I met a man off the internet and we hooked up in his gorgeous Cobble Hill apartment. But I have no regrets. I was ready, physically and mentally, to have sex and I’m glad that I did it.

I don’t know the percentage of you readers who are virgins (I know that you are out there!) but don’t worry, you will get laid. Whether you’re 16 or 46, it will happen eventually. Just have some faith and don’t be expecting sex to happen right around the corner. Take in to account this story: I used to have this bright red cardinal that hung out alone in the tree outside my apartment. I often wondered, in a city full of dull, average, forgettable birds, how will this unique one ever find another? The answer and the metaphor is: just be who you are. It didn’t seem to mind being alone, just ate the bugs it liked, hung out in the trees it liked, flew around and did whatever made it happy. A month later, another cardinal showed up, and the rest is history. They’re probably still banging right now. So, just live your life. That sexual someone will come along eventually. It's a little known fact- but they always do.

Friday, November 19, 2010

horny and sick

i am really horny right now...and super sick as well. =/

not really feeling good so sorry, no post today.

Thursday, November 18, 2010


went running late last night...bad idea.

the combination of lack of sleep, the cold, fatigue and 15 miles did me in.

i am really in pain now...back, neck, legs are sore. i have a cold and am burning up.
on top of that i can't sleep because of how much physical pain i am in. =/

let's see if masturbating will help...

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

gusty or is it gutsy?

another beautiful day here in new york city, but it's pretty damn gusty out.

just this morning i was approached by a good looking young lady asking for directions. i gave her the directions and proceeded to have a brief conversation with her while walking in the same general direction. she ended up giving me her number, which really took me by surprise.

well i told her that i would give her a call, but who knows if she would run for the hills if i told her about my situation?

anyway, it's time to man up and test my gutsiness.

more to come later...

-nyc virgin

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

open letter to the ladies of new york

to the ladies of new york: i love you!

you dress well.
smell good.
have fabulous hair.
and know how to flaunt it in public.

damn why am i such a sucker for teases.
there is nothing sexier than a confident woman who knows that she is hot but carries herself like any other plain jane on this planet. i love it when they are so down to earth and easy going.

on the other hand we have the uber uptight frigid bitches or was it witches?
the few who roam the streets of nyc can be seen playing with our fragile emotions bending and molding us guys into scared little sheep. your pussy does not grant you the power of control over us.

i can't say much as i have never been in such a position. but yeah i know you guys can relate.

ladies, don't feel afraid to approach us alternative looking guys. we all know that people are superficial and look for the model looks and such but really if you took your time and got to know the other type of guys, you'd be opening doors for us less unfortunate guys. at the very least you'd make us happy by having a short conversation with us.

flattery knows no bounds. ;]

p.s. yeah this entry was all over the place, i probably could have delved into more detail. but yeah, i am tired and not in the mood. what a crappy gray tuesday...

Monday, November 15, 2010

i just want to go to bed

it's monday, i am tired.
does anyone have the case of the mondays? [office space reference ;]]

yeah what i would love to do is go home and hop right back into my bed.
i feel sleep deprived and could use a nice vacation, but my schedule does not allot me anytime for such luxuries.

so nothing is new on my sexual journey...although i did have a fun phone sex session over the weekend. i sure came real good. =)
anyways back to my work and off to bed with me when i get home, perhaps i will squeeze in a masturbation session before bed too.

fuck, i'm horny!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Friday, November 12, 2010


cyber-sex is defined as computer sex, internet sex, net sex, mud sex, tiny sex and, colloquially, cybering, is a virtual sex encounter in which two or more persons connected remotely via computer network send each other sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. it is a form of sexual role play in which the participants pretend they are having actual sex. (thank you wikipedia for the brief but in depth explanation of what cyber sex is)

have you ever engaged in cyber sex?

i have in the past and let me tell you, there is nothing better than getting blue balls over the internet. sharing a session with a person who you purportedly believe to be a woman and sharing dirty details about the carnal act of sex. what can be better? you don't have to tell me...i know.

but yeah we have to make do with what we have and what is being offered at the moment. so yes these cybering sessions do tend to get hot and heavy...and with the aid of porn; it can do wonders. it often leads to masturbation which brings the immediate release of sexual tension between the two partners. but what if your partner is still raging for more from you? you have cooled but your partner is egging you on for more?
do you try to muster up some stamina and strength to continue your endeavors or do you simply say: "goodbye! thanks for the session, i came buckets!" (who uses "i came buckets?" is that even possible?) ;]

there is no etiquette to cyber sex per se, however would you feel the need to satisfy your partner as he/she may have done for you? if i had plans and need to get some place, i politely thank them for a great session and then go on my way, because i got mine. if i had time to linger around, i would try to continue on and try to get my partner off. simple as that.

so the next time you start a cybering session, these are a few things you can ponder on during your session, if you aren't too busy getting off.

happy friday everyone!

-nyc virgin

Thursday, November 11, 2010

craiglist part deux

pertaining to my curious nature, i figured i would write a few craigslist posts out there and see what type of responses i would get.

results were lackluster...but nonetheless there was some interest from some people.

the largest amount of replies came from spam bots. i must have received over 80 emails from ridiculous sounding spam bombers.

the few who were interested were all couples...go figure.
yeah, i don't know what is wrong with couples being interested in virgins. but it is quite the phenomenon.

i have come to the final conclusion that craigslist is one of the most useless forums to venture into if you want to hook up with a single female.

with that said, it was only a test and to poke my curiosity. i am pretty sure not much would have come from any correspondences from craigslist.

anyway...stay tuned for more...we may have a guest blogger in the coming weeks.

but yeah craigslist, you are good for finding crappy jobs, trading old appliances/electronics, purchasing both legitimate and non legitimate tickets for events, and the typical bullshit you will find in everyday life. but for dating and casual sex? boy you do suck! =)

peace out.

-nyc virgin

Wednesday, November 10, 2010


why do celebrities take nude pictures of themselves only to have them stolen and exposed to the public?

i suppose the rational answer would be that they are like any other person. we are all human after all. they take pictures to satisfy their significant others or their own egos. it's funny when the pictures get leaked, they give guys like me a chance to see what celebrity bodies should look like, while most are appealing there are a few who should not be shown out there...(looking at you courtney love, kanye, etc...)

and yes some have no shame, they leak sex tapes and nudes to gain publicity and promote upcoming projects, movies and whatnot.

there are also a few cases where people have become famous only to have their past bite them on the butt. need i remind you of what angelina jolie has done in the past? anyways celebrities are just like any other human being...they just so happen to have more money and assets than the average joe out there.

so while i can say that we should leave them be and let them live a normal life...screw them! they deserve all the attention and annoyances they receive from the paparazzi and the general public.

anyways, it's another slow week...i need to masturbate right now.

i shall provide you with some masturbatory material (kat dennings, ladies and gentleman; c'mon ladies i know you would want a piece of this too) thanks goes to my friend who sent me the link late last night. ;]

-nyc virgin

p.s. as always i enjoy any emails from my readers so don't be shy and keep those emails coming. =)

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

brand new day

it's brand new day and i will try to keep myself busy enough to forget that i am alone.

while the weather hasn't been nice lately, i have been trying to go out as much as possible to keep myself preoccupied. with the inclusion of the daylight savings time, we got an extra hour for fun, sleep, work, or whatever you need to do...etc.

what can i expect during this month of november?

i will try to go on some dates...i need to be proactive!
who knows what will come of these dates.
i just want to get out there and enjoy life.

i have to get my school work and work schedule in check, so that i don't lose track of what's most important.

i will try to work myself harder and push myself even more than i have in the past.
good things do not come to those who wait, you have to go out there and grab it with your own hands.

i know lately i have been sounding pretty depressed or sad, but i promise that i will try to be as positive as possible because i have so much support from the people around my life. i just want to be happy as anyone can be.

wish me luck on this journey.

but really, i need to get laid!

Monday, November 8, 2010


it's been a pretty cold day and all i can think about is sharing some covers with a warm body. i wish i had a female friend i could cuddle/snuggle with in this cool weather. it would be so awesome if i had someone to share my time with.

yeah, i have to admit; i have been a bit down and lonely lately.
sigh, masturbation works to an extent but i bet it is nothing compared to a real woman...which is something i really strive for.

i have great friends and an awesome family, but can they understand the plight of a virgin?

got to get my head out of the gutter and start looking positive!

on another note, did anyone check out the nyc marathon yesterday?
awesome stuff, made me go out for a 6 mile run yesterday...trying to up my miles as the weather gets worse. nothing better than running in the extreme cold.

but yeah, i am me and entertain me! =)

-nyc virgin

Friday, November 5, 2010

a brief history of jacking off

something i found very interesting.
i was going to dedicate an entry to the history of masturbation but while doing my research i came across this blog. very insightful stuff!

A Brief History Of Jacking Off

visit the blog for some good info.

cam4 is a new favorite website for me. ;]

Thursday, November 4, 2010

fuck the rain!

i don't know...i am not feeling too well today. it must be the weather, let's blame it on the rain!
i feel rather impatient and testy today...i have no idea why but yeah to say the least i am in a fucking bad mood right now.

yes i have issues with people going about their leisurely strolls with their oversize umbrellas clogging up half the damn sidewalks. yes i want you to move the fuck out of my way when i am clearly rushing to get somewhere. god, i don't know what's wrong with me but i feel like crap.

i am in need of some serious rest and relaxation. i feel a bit burnt out. i don't want people to think that i am bi-polar because i am as far as being bi-polar than i am depressed. while i try to have a positive outlook on life and things in general, i feel like crap.

so please excuse my mini rant here.

i think i will go home and masturbate then sleep my worries away!

damn i am fucking horny...i need sex, i crave it, and i am growing impatient with myself. =(

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

double takes

hmm... lately i have been experiencing a phenomenon.

yes, you may wonder what this phenomenon is and i will aim to please by letting you know just what it is.

i have been getting many looks and double takes from members of the opposite sex.
i wonder why though? could it be my new hair cut from a few weeks ago? am i dressing myself any nicer than i usually do? it kind of baffles me at times. it's not that i mind the extra attention but really am i appealing to women?

what if they knew i was a virgin? would that change anything? would they just look elsewhere if they knew? i can be shy and opportunities for me are far and few between.

what if i used these chances to strike up a conversation? i guess i will never know unless i try. yes, trying is something else i have a problem with. i don't believe i have enough courage to strike up a conversation with a beautiful woman on the streets. i mean who does that? would i come off as pathetic? unique? or maybe even desperate?

anyways, maybe the next look or double take i get, i will try and chat it up.
who wants to be my victim/ guinea pig? ;]

-nyc virgin

p.s. thanks for the emails people...keep them coming! =)

Tuesday, November 2, 2010


just voted.

hope you all got out there to vote today.

that is all.

it's only tuesday?

could this week go by any slower?
it's cold and i want my warmth back. maybe someone would like to keep warm with me ;]

went to eataly last night to dine at manzo, decent food for us meat lovers.
if you haven't check this place out, it's a giant italian marketplace. think whole foods with restaurants. (there's a slight homage to our american food courts)
for more information check this website:

so i have contacted both fleshlight and tenga representatives about their products to no avail. i suppose i will write them again and see what's up with them. i am still curious and wondering what their products are like. more to come about this once i receive correspondence from them.

what a boring day, in class now... zzzzzzz

Monday, November 1, 2010


good afternoon everyone!
hope you all had yourself a pleasant halloween. now that we are done with our sugar induced comas and dress up play; it's november!

can you believe it? it's freaking november, not just a few days ago we were still hitting the 70s in temperature. today? a meager 48-50 degrees outdoors. talk about brisk. but yeah time sure does move fast.
before we know it we will be gearing up for our turkey dinners over thanksgiving.
ah, gotta love that tryptophan. ;]

checked out the halloween parade last night in the village, it was crowded, cold, and uneventful. you've been to one? you've been to them all. figured i would run home and catch the premiere of the walking dead on television. boy what a good premise and start to the series. for those who haven't checked it out yet, please head over to the amc channel website and see if you can find a episode to stream. i guarantee you will have a good time. =)

aside from my uneventful halloween, i have been keeping busy with my school work and work in general. i hope to update this blog as often as possible as i know there are some of you who like to get a daily fix of the virgin ;] i promise i will try to keep my updates daily but in the event i get too busy, i will just have to make it up by fielding a q & a session for any fans or curious observers. if you have any questions you would liked answered please feel free to email me at:

i look forward to all future correspondence with my readers.
thanks again and i am off to masturbate, need to cum!

-nyc virgin

Thursday, October 28, 2010


it's thursday and it has been absolutely gorgeous throughout the week!

can't think of anything better to do than head out to central park after classes let out.
i have my running gear ready so how many miles should i go for? was thinking in the ballpark of 5 miles, maybe a little more. i am sure there will be a lot of people running, especially the ladies ;]

anyways i will leave you guys with a link to something i have taken an interest in lately:

you guessed it right, it's a website featuring a glamorous looking doll who performs fellatio. the quality of the video is in high resolution, and the way she goes about doing her work...just makes me want to be the guy she is working on.

disclaimer: there is a subscription fee needed for viewing her videos but you can find a few of them on some notable porn sites.

look below for some samples:

bon appetit mesdames et messieurs

-nyc virgin

Wednesday, October 27, 2010


oddities, what oddities am i speaking of?

lately i have been waking up with slight headaches and feeling really exhausted throughout the day. maybe i need to get to bed earlier.

i also hear this slight popping in my left ear throughout the day.
i think i should pay a visit to the doctor sometime soon but i am just so busy.
i might be able to make a weekend appointment.

other than that, a female friend of mine struck up a conversation about porn via exchange of emails. she was saying how much she enjoys watching gay porn, to listen to the ooohs and aaaaahs of men. she then posed a question to me, "if i have ever watched anything awkward or out of the ordinary?" to which i replied back to her that "there are plenty of kinky videos coming out of japan."

i will share a few links out there with you guys: (let me know if you guys find it interesting or not)

world's largest "orgy?" (not sure if this constitutes as a orgy but close enough i presume.
link to said "orgy"

i wouldn't really call it an orgy but more like 250 couples having sex in the same room. imagine what that warehouse would have smelled like after an event like that.

here is another video to put a smile on your face: (the famed helicopter position)
cracks me up all the time!

enjoy the vids and have a great day people!

-nyc virgin

p.s. i need a nap.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010


i am sitting at home now, balancing a few activities:

drafting my fantasy basketball team
watching some mediocre movie on television
perusing a new website i found ( which will be listed below) ;]
emailing my professor a few questions i need answered for a paper i am writing.
texting a few friends about some plans later tonight.

you must be thinking "boy, does this guy know how to multitask." let me tell you it's easier than you think. you just have to be well coordinated and know how to prioritize.

anyways the website I mentioned is
great stuff there, you have girls cam whoring for tips and whatnot.
feel free to check it out if you can.

now who should i go for Kobe or D. Wade? contemplation!

-nyc virgin

P.S. after all this, you know it! masturbation time!

Monday, October 25, 2010

a beautiful start to the week

ooh it's such a gorgeous day, actually hitting 70 degrees today. =)
i have a few hours before i have to get to class. what should i do with my free time?

i think i will take a nice leisurely stroll through central park before i head into class. going to grab some lunch and rub one out before i head out though.

to my friend belle: feel better and get well soon! =)

more to come later...

-nyc virgin

Friday, October 22, 2010

the weekend is near

ooh what a busy week i have had, going to get some running done tonight...i am thinking maybe 5 - 7 miles should do it. haven't been able to work out much lately due to my busy schedule.

then it's out to dinner with some friends, maybe a few drinks here and there and then who knows?

while i have been busy, i kind of forgotten how horny i am.
that feeling just doesn't go away. why though? i have no idea.

off to masturbate! (i think i will try out today ;])

enjoy the weekend everyone.


-nyc virgin

Thursday, October 21, 2010

an open letter to all the women out there who go for the dark, bad boy types.

women, i just can't seem to grasp what's on their minds.

while i have a good aptitude for reading people, i don't get why some women go for the bad guys. by bad guy i mean those asshole player types that don't give a shit about women. what makes them so attractive? and why do they come to us good guys when they get hurt by said bad guy...

i am tired of being a footstep for women, i may be kind and generous but don't mistake that for me being some you can take advantage of when the going gets tough. i am there to listen to you, talk with you and offer you comfort and yet you never learn from your mistakes. no matter how many times i may warn you of the bad guy you go back to him.

with that said i guess you will eventually figure it out and the multiple times you have been hurt will serve you well in coming back to reality.

this was just something i wanted to get off my chest. it was not directed towards anyone in particular, i am just sick of seeing beautiful, intelligent, attractive women going out with losers.
so ladies next time you contemplate going for the bad guy or going back to the guy who has hurt you the most, just think of the other guy...the guy who has been there for you all the time when you needed it. you need not look further, give the good guy a shot and you will be surprise what may come of it.

just my two cents here.

-nyc virgin

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

life as we know it

are you guys bored of living a routine day in and day out?
don't you ever feel like letting everything go and just exploring the world out there?
that's what i often feel like i want to do.

the problem is that in order to do that, you need money.
to gain that money you need a job, and on top of that you need to put in the hours on the job to earn that money. when you receive that paycheck you have some of it going to state and federal taxes, living expenses: food, utilities and your everyday spending habits etc.

i was thinking back to simpler time before we all got so greedy and when things were working out great for our society. did capitalism ruin us? our dollar isn't worth much nowadays and it's a shame...

imagine if our late president Franklin D. Roosevelt had gotten his wish when he declared a second bill of rights for the citizens of the united states?

here is an excerpt from fdr's state of the union address in 1944:

"It is our duty now to begin to lay the plans and determine the strategy for the winning of a lasting peace and the establishment of an American standard of living higher than ever before known. We cannot be content, no matter how high that general standard of living may be, if some fraction of our people—whether it be one-third or one-fifth or one-tenth—is ill-fed, ill-clothed, ill-housed, and insecure.

This Republic had its beginning, and grew to its present strength, under the protection of certain inalienable political rights—among them the right of free speech, free press, free worship, trial by jury, freedom from unreasonable searches and seizures. They were our rights to life and liberty.

As our nation has grown in size and stature, however—as our industrial economy expanded—these political rights proved inadequate to assure us equality in the pursuit of happiness.

We have come to a clear realization of the fact that true individual freedom cannot exist without economic security and independence. “Necessitous men are not free men.” People who are hungry and out of a job are the stuff of which dictatorships are made.

In our day these economic truths have become accepted as self-evident. We have accepted, so to speak, a second Bill of Rights under which a new basis of security and prosperity can be established for all—regardless of station, race, or creed.

Among these are:

The right to a useful and remunerative job in the industries or shops or farms or mines of the nation;

The right to earn enough to provide adequate food and clothing and recreation;

The right of every farmer to raise and sell his products at a return which will give him and his family a decent living;

The right of every businessman, large and small, to trade in an atmosphere of freedom from unfair competition and domination by monopolies at home or abroad;

The right of every family to a decent home;

The right to adequate medical care and the opportunity to achieve and enjoy good health;

The right to adequate protection from the economic fears of old age, sickness, accident, and unemployment;

The right to a good education.

All of these rights spell security. And after this war is won we must be prepared to move forward, in the implementation of these rights, to new goals of human happiness and well-being.

For unless there is security here at home there cannot be lasting peace in the world."

all very valid and good points made by fdr...alas fdr passed away shortly after and his dream/plan was never realized. what would have been if we had passed a second bill of rights? should we push for a change? our economy is in dire straits. or is it too late?

what is your say?

Tuesday, October 19, 2010


porn, who loves porn? i do, i do!

what's so great about it? it's just so interesting to watch two people go at it, to watch the carnal act live...does that make me a voyeur? perhaps, but who wouldn't get some gratification from watching a hot couple have sex?

but yeah back to porn...oh how i love porn, it gets me through my masturbation sessions and it is just fun to watch.

a question i have is, why are there so many women porn stars and so little men out there in that industry? why can't us average joes try out to be a porn star? is it that hard to keep it up and keep from cumming?

i believe that with proper exercise and diet you can have a very healthy sexual appetite/libido. imagine me a porn that would be fun, maybe a dream come true. but i would imagine it gets old really quick...

porn is amazing, here are a few of my favorite websites. feel free to browse through them:

good stuff here!
happy surfing to you.

-nyc virgin

Monday, October 18, 2010

start of the week

a nice day to start off the week.
weather is not bad, it's slightly cool outside, perfect weather!

had a busy weekend, went out to a few bars and even did some apple picking on sunday.

so, you know how my friends bet me 50 dollars to say to a random girl at a bar "you look like you give a good blowjob?" well they changed up the terms of the bet, they asked me to say this to at least 10 women to earn my money...i did and there were varying mixed results.

the results:

i got 5 phone numbers.

2 of them brushed me off and ignored me.

1 offered to show me her skills.

1 responded to me with a snide remark.

and 1 said she had a boyfriend.

these were some interesting results as i was not prepared to have much positive interactions with these ladies.

could it be that the line "you look like you give a good blowjob." is the ultimate icebreaker?

i would also have to account for the influence of alcohol being the social lubricant that it is.

was i charming? did i look presentable? appealing? what was it that gave me such a chance at receiving this much attention?

in the end i was 50 dollars richer with a few more contacts on my phone list.
it was a fun night indeed.

more to come later!

nyc virgin

p.s. i have 5 bags filled with apples in my fridge, anyone fancy making a apple pie with me? ;]

p.p.s. to the anonymous fan who asked "Would you get it on with a fan?" email me and we can chat. =)

Friday, October 15, 2010

cool october days...

i am enjoying my friday sipping on some hot chocolate on this cool october day.
not much on my mind today and my work is pretty much done for, just waiting for tonight, going to go out and paint the town red!

my friends dared/bet me that i wouldn't be able to find a random girl in a bar and tell her "you look like you give a good blowjob." for 50 bucks i will take that challenge tonight and i will post results later on whether it be good or bad.

feeling a bit horny right now, going to masturbate and relax a bit now.

oh yeah game 1 of the alcs is on tonight! go yankees!

Thursday, October 14, 2010

unlikely scenario.

back from a short hiatus, been pretty busy for the past two days with work and school.
so, i received a email from a fan, a couple actually...they offered to take my virginity.

not so sure i would want a guy to be there taking my virginity, let alone be present there while i lose my virginity to his girl.
what is it with men who get off in watching their women have sex with random strangers? does that make them voyeurs? but seriously if anyone is going to offer to help me, please let it just be a single woman. i don't think that I can handle any more than that.

but alas i am flattered and thank you for writing to me.
yep, i enjoy reading fan mail and if you send some my way i will make sure to reply back to you as soon as possible.

now, back to my studies!

Monday, October 11, 2010


good morning fellow readers,

i attended the new york comic con/anime festival over this weekend and boy did i have a wonderful time.
talk about a nerd's dream come true, there were so many awesome panels and i met some new friends at the ign meet and greet over at the village pourhouse.
just wondering if any of you guys have attended the event, what are your thoughts and impressions?

there were some nice cosplay costumes at the comic con event. cute girls in sexy costumes? yes please!

anyways, the progress of me losing my virginity has been slow...but who knows what opportunities may present itself one day?

feeling absolutely refreshed and energized to start this week off, it's going to be a good day! =)

-nyc virgin

Friday, October 8, 2010

massage parlor...

remember when i said i needed a massage?
i finally ventured out to get can you guess what type of massage i got?

was it a legitimate massage by a licensed massage therapist or a seedy massage with a happy ending?

to answer in short it was the latter...a combination of work/school related stress, lack of sleep, coupled with myself being really horny brought me to a massage parlor in the lower manhattan area.

i will keep this massage parlor anonymous, but i should tell you that you'd be amaze what you can find out there on the internet.

well i did a little research and decided on a location, called ahead of time to schedule an appointment. up until an hour before the appointment i was feeling so nervous and ashamed of what i was about to do.

but as i got to the location, i found it to be quite relaxing and dare i say it? i enjoyed myself and had a good time.

the massage was just right and my back and kinks were all worked out...
when the hour of my massage was coming to and end my "therapist" asked me to turn around and grabbed a bottle of baby oil.
she oiled me up real well and went to was very soothing and relaxing and i sure left with a smile on my face.

hmm i sure hope i don't develop an addiction to this but i had an amazing time.

sigh...back to reality.

Thursday, October 7, 2010


here is a somewhat embarrassing story of what happened to me last night.
i was sleeping with my face down on the pillow, had a certain vivid dream of myself having sex.

i meant it felt so real, not that i know what it really feels like, but before you know it; i ejaculated in my sleep.

it was a good thing i noticed that i came while i was dreaming, would have been uncomfortable for me to sleep till the morning with some wet boxers on.

the last time i had a wet dream was years ago, what's happening to me?

Wednesday, October 6, 2010


i have received a few more emails from some fans and just want to say thank you all for writing me, i will respond to each and everyone of you in due time.

with that said, i would like to share an excerpt from an reader who shall remain anonymous:


I have been reading your blogs from day one and I would like to thank you for writing about your life. I can identify with you in many ways and I just want to wish you the best of luck on your quest to losing your virginity...

Signed by,

thank you for your words of support anonymous reader and i will assure all who read my blog that i will have more interesting stories to come. ;]

now what's going on today with my life? not much really, today is an off day so i spent it at home masturbating. being horny is a natural occurrence to me, if i feel horny i masturbate.

can't wait until the day i finally lose my virginity!
until that day comes i shall masturbate away.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

busy busy days...

as the fall moves in things get busier for me...
it gets busier at work, at school, and life in general gets busy.

it seems as if we do not have enough daylight to go around.
soon daylight savings time will hit us, can't wait to get back an hour of sleep.

so nothing remotely interesting has been happening to me lately, I want to thank all the kind people who have emailed me with words of support. keep them coming as i enjoy reading fan mail and look forward to responding to your correspondence.

a special shout out goes to belle! <3 ;]

Monday, October 4, 2010

a real virgin?

there have been numerous emails from people and a few comments questioning the validity of myself really being a virgin.

i can assure you all that i am a full fledged virgin and that the furthest i have gone with a woman is just kissing.
i've never seen a woman naked in the flesh in person. i know it may be a bit sad, but my time will come.

for now i just wait. patiently. (my patience sometimes wavers but i remain strong)

talking about gloomy, it's another shitty rainy day here in new york.

i feel like getting back into bed and sleeping the rest of the day. =/

i need to get laid.

don't we all?

Friday, October 1, 2010

a wet one

another shitty wet day!

it's been raining all week long, aside from the beautiful day we had on wednesday...fall has officially arrived.

not only is it wet, it is fucking cold. i went outdoors with nothing but my v-neck tee and cargo shorts...bad idea.

while walking by lower manhattan i run across the set of a new movie set for release next year called violet & daisy. looks like crap, but i did happen to bump into a very cute alexis bledel, and attractive saoirse ronan.

i think i need to head home and jack off for a bit now.

as for the massage i have opted to test the waters of a massage with a happy ending, but i might just chicken out and pay more for a legit massage. ;]

fuck i am drenched and cold...

Thursday, September 30, 2010

in need of a massage...

yes that's right, my back is killing me and i am contemplating going in for a massage.
now which route should i take? a lmt (licensed massage therapist) or a shady massage with a happy ending?

i know many of you will want me to go for the massage with the happy ending but some part of me feels a bit uncomfortable with going to one of these places.
i wouldn't know what to expect at a place of that sort.

i need to weigh the pros and cons of my options.
going via a licensed massage therapist i believe i can truly have a relaxing time and enjoy myself but whose to say that i wont enjoy myself at a said (asian) massage parlor.
a licensed massage therapist may also be the costliest of the two. i have no idea, guess i need to do some research and get all the facts down before i venture out.

with that said, which should i go for?

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

masturbation part deux

it seems as if i can't get enough of masturbation, could you blame me though?
it definitely sucks to have never experienced sex before, on top of that, why am i always horny? i mean at certain times i can channel my mind and concentrate on other more important things in life.

but really when i have nothing to do and sit there idly, i think of sex and masturbation, the feeling i get when i cum is sublime and nothing will top that until i feel the carnal knowledge of a woman's touch.

i have been thinking, is masturbation bad for you? can it be a harm to your health?
my answer would likely be, no.

but yeah my curiosity brought me over to google this question. i found many websites saying that there is no scientific research backing masturbation and it's adverse effects...i'd tend to agree with that.

but out there was this one website that was obviously written by some pro-abstinence church going crazy idealist. i will link you guys to the website in a short moment.
but really you have got to check this website out, what they say and claim is absolutely take a look and have a chuckle or two.


read and enjoy the bullshit they spew from their asses. ;p

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

wet and soggy

another day of rain, what garbage weather we are having here...

not in a very good mood today, i have so many things to do and so little time to complete all my tasks.

i need some rest and relaxation...

someone please comfort me. :[

on another note, google thought it was prudent to disable my adsense account.
i do not think i did anything wrong or caused any unusual activity to appear on my blog site, i only want to get my word out to the people.

screw you google!

Monday, September 27, 2010

an open letter to charitable organizations for certain causes....

yes it's you the hrc (human rights campaign), the environment new york group and etc.

jesus, you could stop with the spam mail and calls for pledges of donations for your causes. i have donated to your organization plenty of times and you take advantage of my kindness by asking for more and more.

i am tired of receiving calls at random/weird hours of the day and night asking for donations, will you please please stop and leave me alone?

thank you,

disgruntled contributor
nyc virgin

Friday, September 24, 2010

random thoughts...

i have noticed that i have a stretch mark in my inner thigh area...while it is not really that big or noticeable, it bothers me some.
have i gained some weight or fat? hmm maybe i am exercising too much, why is my skin not as elastic as it used to be?

ooh i saw an ad for some pizza on my blog, makes me crave some pizza now.
nothing beats new york styled pizza, am i right?

damn it getting really hot and humid out, time to turn on the a/c once again.

the san gennaro feast in little italy is coming to an end soon, i have to go and check it out. hope there are some goodies there to try out.

what a boring day, my randomness is distracting me from writing my paper...something that i should be working hard on now. but a break is welcome.

maybe a masturbation session is in order to clear my mind.

so many things to do with so little time.

damn i am hungry too!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

a craigslist letter...

here is a copy of a letter written to and from a male of craigslist(word for word):

Dear men of craigslist 2

This is absolutely serious and absolutely true.

Over the past year I've gotten laid three times from Craigslist. You will definitely "encounter" a lot of people you are not looking for but I found:

1. Hot asian girl who had pierced vagina. Had great sex wtih her.
2. Semi-attractive girl who really really wanted to get laid. She gagged on my cock, but she was a fair performer and I left immediately after a satisfying encounter.
3. Good looking good with large breasts who proceeded to get very drunk, but had excellent very erotic sex with.

There are plenty of horny normal girls and lots of regular horny guys on here as well.

Don't give up!

It's not a waste of time at all.

apparently this is a second of two letters, can't find the first one anywhere...but i call bullshit!

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

sitting, waiting, wishing... get the hell out of here!

jury duty part deux

another long day at jury duty, my name hasn't been called, but i came equipped with my laptop today. thank goodness for the free wifi.

they say that we might be able to get out early today, i am wishing that is the case.
i want this to be over with already.

anyways, life has been remarkably entertaining lately. while i am keeping myself busy i have had some time to hang out and enjoy myself.

there is a woman sitting next to me in a skin tight top and pencil skirt. from the looks of it she is in her late 20s - early 30s. she is looking quite good and has talked with me from time to time. i sure hope she isn't reading what i am typing right now. it would be quite embarrassing to have her see me as a virgin.
the laptop and the light flirtation has kept me going throughout the day, but all i want to do is go home and get some rest. i am tired.

it's pretty warm today too, what's up with the weather?

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

jury duty

yep the day has come, jury duty, i cant think of a more tedious arbitrary civic duty. also please bear with me as i am typing from my mobile phone. i believe i shall try to take a nap.

more to come later...

Monday, September 20, 2010

back from short hiatus

it's monday afternoon and i finally have some time to settle down and write an entry.
i apologize to my readers for missing my entries on saturday and sunday.

well here goes, my life has been getting pretty busy lately.
school work is picking up and i have so many things on my plate that i barely have anytime to take a break and relax.
i will try to keep my daily blogs going but don't be surprised if i miss a few days here and there.

anywho, i want to continually thank all the people who support and read my blog, it is a great honor of mine to share my life with you. i hope you enjoy my stories to come and i look forward to sharing more about my life with you.

with that said, i have been thinking lately how is it that i am still a virgin.
i would have to say that i am a great catch, if i am dating anyone i am loyal, i have a decent body and i look attractive enough. maybe it's my personality?
but i would have to say that i can be one of the most caring and thoughtful people out there. who knows, maybe it is my fate to remain a virgin for a while longer...something of which i have grown accustomed to.
i really hope everyone is enjoying their september, the weather has been amazing here aside from that tornado that hit us last week on thursday.

i will leave you with a few words of wisdom by our late president FDR:
"it is common sense to take a method and try it. if it fails, admit it frankly and try another. but above all, try something."

carpe diem!

-nyc virgin

Sunday, September 19, 2010


been a busy weekend, will try to update you tomorrow, if not then absolutely on monday.

my promise!


nyc virgin

Friday, September 17, 2010


it's friday!
the weather is all beautiful after that nasty tornado that touched down last night.
what to do this weekend? it seems pretty open to me right now.

i think i shall relax it up. i am enjoying these slow cool september days.
first thing i do when i get home today, i need to masturbate and relieve myself, hard to believe but it's been a couple of days since my last wank.

hoping you all have a great start to your weekend!

i know i will ;)

Thursday, September 16, 2010


what makes a person promiscuous?
is it the enjoyment of having sex with multiple countless partners?

what do we call these men and women who like to sleep around? sluts, manwhores, wench, harlots, floozy, prostitutes, tramp, loose, bimbo, hussy and etc.

do you notice a common trend? all these derogatory terms are geared towards women...why is there such a double standard when it comes to women wanting to sleep around? i am sure men who sleep around get congratulated by buddies alike when they share stories of their sexual adventures.

how many of you ladies have slept around and felt too embarrassed and shy to share your stories? i know that there are such women around and if they come forth i am sure they would be welcomed with open arms amongst others who share the same plight.

i think sexual freedom has it's benefits, people can be free to sleep around with one another without the constraints of being labeled with those terms mentioned above.
of course nowadays you have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases and such, but what a day it would be if we could just act on our promiscuity.

just something to think about while you go about your day.

-nyc virgin

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

slow september days...

this month has been moving incredibly slow.
all i can remember is just how fast the summer has passed by.

i suppose it is not a bad thing, we are having some very beautiful weather here in new york. temperatures in the 60s - 70s fahrenheit.
i have been trying to get out more and enjoy what new york has to offer, but after a long day at work/school i have no desire to do anything but rest back up for the next day.

what is a guy to do? what if a new york minute was reduced to a slower pace i am sure we can all benefit from that. california has the right idea going, they are chill and relaxed a majority of the time. but who am i kidding, i love this city!

nyc for life!

Tuesday, September 14, 2010


alright here comes a question that may stir some conversation and debate over here:

do women prefer uncircumcised or circumcised penises?
what are the pros and cons of both?

i myself am "_____" . you will just have to ask me personally if you are interested. ;]

ladies is there a difference in sensation with either type of penis? do you notice more/less pleasure while with one or the other?
guys, do you have it cut or uncut? which would you rather have it as?

or are we all just speculating and is the saying/adage that "it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it." true?

my opinion is that the adage is true to an extent, i believe women do/would enjoy a larger sized penis although it wouldn't matter much if their partner were some sort of sex god.

anyways...just my two cents.

what are your thoughts?

Monday, September 13, 2010

rude awakening

it was a rude awakening indeed this morning, woke up with a sore back and a killer headache. these late nights are taking it's toll on my body.

i went to the mirror and it was not a pretty sight, not only did i feel like crap but i looked the part too.
as i prepared to head out, i notice how excited i got when i got when i was thinking of grabbing a cup of coffee.
has starbucks really taken a hold of our everyday lives? not starbucks, but the main culprit here is caffeine, but to me it's a miracle drug, it revives my soul and brings me back from the deep slumber in my brain.

i curse you caffeine! what would life be without you?

do you rely on coffee or tea to keep yourself all charged up and going for the day?

okay back to sipping my iced latte...

Sunday, September 12, 2010


i shave my pubic hair...
now you may be wondering why a virgin would have a reason to shave down there and my answer would be that i simply enjoy the freedom down there. not to mention it makes my junk look larger ;]

it all started when i was in college, it was a hot summer day and it was really humid and sticky all around so i went for a shower. whilst in the middle of the shower i was shaving, that's when my curiosity kicked in; i asked myself "what would it feel like to shave down there? i bet it is a liberating feeling! alright, let's do this." and the rest is history.

looking back the first time i shaved, i was really afraid that i would nick and cut myself. i kind of did but it was very minor...i was armed with my gillete mach 3 razor and shaving gel, it worked wonders and when i came out of the shower i was baby smooth.

i have experimented with trimming as well but shaving it is so much simpler and gives it a unique feeling.

so i ask unto you, do you shave? what are your thoughts and feelings on people who shave? do you prefer your pubic hair shaved, trimmed or natural? how do you prefer your partner?

be back later, i need a cut...a haircut that is.

nyc virgin out!

up late, can't sleep

can't sleep, it's 2:49 am and i feel physically tired but my brain is running at 100 mph. there seems to be a lot on my mind, do i need the aid of a sleeping pill?
doesn't seem like a viable option at this hour, i could just surf the web until my eyelids go heavy?.

it's been a wonderful weekend thus far, a lot of plans tomorrow so i suppose i should try to get some shut eye.

damn i am horny too, no wet dreams please! no wet dreams....zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Saturday, September 11, 2010

September 11th 2001...

I remember that very day, it was 9 years ago but I shall never forget what had happened.
We remember and shall never forget...

no nice comments...

to the wise guy who chose to spam my comments about castration, it is not appreciated.
while i promote free speech, haven't you heard of the term "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all?"

i appreciate people who speak their mind but really, we can be mature about this.
in any case, thanks for your comments.

just got back from fashion night out...tired...going to pass out.

goodnight/good morning

Friday, September 10, 2010

tenga? tango?

my curiosity has gotten the best of me, after researching the fleshlight i came to another product.

the tenga brand fliphole fliplite sex toy masturbator
it sure looks interesting enough, not as conventional looking as the fleshlight and about a third to a half of the size smaller.
not only does it look more inconspicuous but i believe you can hide it easier in plain view if need be.

personally i haven't tried either sex toy, i would imagine it to be quite pleasurable but not the real thing.

tenga brand sure has a unique and original look to it.

if you are interested in reading more about tenga brands, check out: (Main website)

hey look, they even have a wikipedia page:

what do you guys think? fleshlight or tenga?
what brands do you females go for?

Thursday, September 9, 2010

craigslist is interesting and fail

i had a few more hits over the past few days off craigslist.

one was from a couple, i wasn't sure how to approach this one so i politely declined them.

the second was from yet another gay guy, i don't know what they see in me but yeah i am not going that route. thanks anyways.

third seemed legitimate to me until it occurred to me that he/she may have been a picture collector so i just left it at that.

well i guess this is why craigslist is not the ideal place to find someone to lose your virginity to. it is still interesting to see replies from people...if i had the time i could do a study on this.

any of you out there try craigslist and have success?
let's hear them.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010


i am very horny right now.
i wonder what makes us men horny a majority of the day?
how often do women feel horny? do they think of sex as much as we do?
masturbation helps to an extent.

what do you do to take your mind of the edge of being horny?
should i find a hobby? if so, what should it be?
doesn't help that the weather has still been pretty warm lately...skimpy outfits galore i see outside.

this is the plight of being a virgin.

thank you

i want to personally thank everyone who has commented and followed my blog, it means a lot to see that my thoughts and words are getting circulated out there.

i look forward to keeping everyone entertained with my daily blog, please stay tuned for more debauchery from yours truly,

- nyc virgin

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

the virginity hit

i don't know if you have heard of a new movie coming out on september 10th called "the virginity hit."

seems quite interesting if not albeit another dumb teenage melodrama. but the premise of the story is that you have a virgin and his best friend filming his life and his exploits up until his deed...

they call it a mix of american pie and superbad...i don't know what to expect from this movie, maybe i can relate to some points but it looks to carry on in the fond tradition of making fun of us virgins. if it is indeed funny i can laugh at myself and identify myself through the main character. i look forward to it, no matter how bad it looks. =)

for more information check:

-ciao, i leave you with the movie's red band trailer


Monday, September 6, 2010

happy labor day

a happy labor day to everyone!

hope you all have a pleasant day! =)

Sunday, September 5, 2010

goodbye summer, hello fall

summer has been great but i really am going to enjoy the fall weather, it is already turning out to be a great weekend...well i have a bbq to attend tonight, i guess this will be the last bbq of the season. i will be sure to eat my fair share. ;-)

speaking of which, fall season, sure the ladies dress more conservatively in this season but if i must say they look spectacular doing so. what is it with new york being the fashion capital of the world, we dress sharp and look to impress.

had to masturbate this morning, woke up with some morning wood.
boy this was a random post.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

hurricane what?

it has been a gorgeous day thus far and i believe this labor day weekend will top us off on the amazing weather we have been experiencing. i enjoyed the u.s. open very much even though i may have inexplicably shown my bulge through my pants to an unknowing audience in a young woman sitting next to me.
i had a good day today, oddly enough i didn't feel really horny...may have been due to the fact that i kept myself preoccupied with errands and stuff to do today.

i applaud all the beautiful women who dress to flaunt their bodies to us men, we really enjoy the view.

lately i have been thinking about a special person, i really hope to get to know her better, although we live in opposite coasts i would like for a chance to meet with her one day. ;-)

Friday, September 3, 2010

u.s. open

trying my hand at mobile blogging at the moment.
i am out enjoying some action at the u.s. open.
the weather isn't the greatest but the tennis sure makes up for it.

while watching a particular woman's match, i unexpectedly got a boner. (actually it's not odd that i had one, damn tennis outfits)
it was a bit embarrassing as i believe the girl sitting next to me noticed.
she kept staring at me but i thought nothing of it.

more to come later on tonight...more tennis for me!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

hot day, hot week!

it's been a hot and humid week here in new york...forecast says we will get to experience the effects of hurricane earl by the weekend. that is a welcoming thought, we need some rain to cool this bitch down.

one remarkable phenomenon of having such hot weather is that women dress in skimpy outfits and flaunt their bodies around for all of us to look at.
while this is nice, it hurts a guy like drives me to be even hornier than i already am.

someone save me!

i need some water. and a/c.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010


masturbation, does it ever become old? boring? routine?

these are the things that run through my mind everyday.

do you use the aid of toys, porn, vibrators, and etc. when you masturbate?
how often do you do so?

lately i have become interested in trying out a fleshlight...yeah it's a cheesy looking toy.
for those who do not know what a fleshlight it, its a fake vagina toy stuffed inside a plastic tube in the shape of a flashlight. for more info check

it certainly looks interesting, does it work well? how does it compare to the real thing, i am sure nothing does.

just wondering if i should give it a go.
what do you think?

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

another proposal?

i have recently been receiving replies to my cl posts...many of them spam mail but there are a few genuine ones out there.

believe it or not i have been approached by a gay male...while i am flattered i am afraid i do not swing that way. i have gay and lesbian friends and i would like to keep it as a friendship. thank you for your offer but boy that was way off from what i was looking for.

a special shout out to a special someone: Belle! =)

thanks for the kind emails and comments.

Monday, August 30, 2010

it's my birthday!

happy birthday to me?

no plans, no girlfriend, still have my virginity intact.
what should I do...maybe I will go out celebrating with my friends.

but this life that i's quite depressing...half the time i am bored out of my mind and can't get the thought of sex out of my head. why must i be so horny all the time.

is there a way to cure this all?
well i am officially 26 today...wish me a happy birthday? =)

Saturday, August 28, 2010


my resolve is strong, after much deliberation(and masturbation) last night i have come to a conclusion...i shall not seek an escort, although it had crossed my mind.

i had a few looks at some escorting websites that shall remain anonymous...and i thought to myself, i can't stoop to this level. i don't want to go out this way.

i shall wait until i have another opportunity, don't know when that will be but i think i could remain true to myself until that one lucky day of mine when i can finally lose my virginity.

in other news, it's a beautiful day out here in nyc. let's take a stroll outside.

Friday, August 27, 2010


was wondering if i should take the easy way out and just look for an escort?
what do you think i should do? =/

tired of this virgin bullshit.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

slight regret...

there might be some regrets about making my decision so hastily.

to be fair the woman of the couple was smoking hot, it would have been a pleasure to lose my virginity to her.

on the second hand i wouldn't want a dude present there, it would just be too awkward for me. it's a good thing though the dude was bi-sexual.

missed opportunities. =(

a hit!

yes you read correctly, a hit on craigslist!

although it's from a couple...they want a threesome.

not sure if that is something i can do, especially for my first time around. i politely declined the offer, looks like i stay a virgin for another day.
would you have done the same if you were in my situation?

i am so very bored.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

wonderful insight into being a virgin

check this link out, it about sums up my fears of staying a's good to see that i am not alone.

please help me, 5th time masturbating today. =\


finished masturbating, what a relief.
now i feel even hornier, what to do?

peruse craigslist!

nothing special, just spam ads and fake people.

i put up a few post on cl, let's see if you can find me. ;]

a new day, a new struggle

what bleak and cloudy day it is today...

i am sitting at home with nothing to do, what is there to do when you are all alone and lonely?

i guess i will go and do that for a bit.

boy, this is going to be a long day...

Monday, August 23, 2010


hello everyone, please allow me to introduce myself; i am the nyc virgin

coming up on my 25th birthday soon and still a virgin...tis' a shame i know.
i got the inspiration to write this blog from a fellow blogger miss imogene or a.k.a. the awesomeslut. (look her up)

this blog will be the detail of my daily life and sex life (of lackthereof)

hopefully this will soon change as i get out there in the real life and meet some nice young ladies.
i am by all means a gentleman, shy, reserved, and don't know what to do with my life just yet.

in grad school at this moment and enjoying every minute of it.

i hope i will receive many warm welcomes from my fellow bloggers, any comments, questions, and etc. will be welcomed.

i hope to share more with you in the foreseeable future.


p.s. before the grammar/spelling/punctuation police tear me apart, i have decided to leave my blog as is all lower case. thank you for understanding.