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Friday, December 31, 2010

revelations and resolutions.

i have come to realize that being a virgin sucks. (go figure)
while i have not minded staying a virgin for so long, i do notice that i complain to myself a lot. "why am i still a virgin?" "why can't i find a girl?" and other nagging questions i pose to myself.

rather than complaining, i will make a resolution: to further better myself in my interactions with women.

i seriously need to stop being so shy in person.
there is another thing, i guess you can call this a two part resolution.

i want to get rid of this notion of a resolution...it's just something that we pose to ourselves to get ourselves over the proverbial hump of a new year.

if you were serious about bettering yourself you wouldn't have waited until a new year to start doing whatever it was you set out to do for yourself.

let's just have a set of goals and slowly chip away at them. not only will it be more satisfying when you finally do reach your final destination but you won't be cheating or lying to yourself.

so with that said, i bid you all a happy new year! i wish you all good health and happiness in the coming year.

goodbye 2010, bring on 2011!

-nyc virgin

"New Year's is a harmless annual institution, of no particular use to anybody save as a scapegoat for promiscuous drunks, and friendly calls and humbug resolutions." -Mark Twain

Thursday, December 30, 2010

another reason to masturbate

another great blog post by my friends over at cam4.com

here are the health benefits to masturbation...

follow the link to the cam4 blog: http://blog.cam4.com/?p=913
article as shown on the cam4 site.

"Health Benefits of Jerking Off

Here is a breakdown of how masturbation can be beneficial to both your physical and emotional health. There is no credible scientific or medical evidence that manual masturbation is damaging to either one’s mental or physical health.

In general the act of masturbating can:

* Relieve insomnia
* Stimulate the immune system to help build up resistance to common infections.
* Improve blood circulation.
* Release mood elevating hormones
* Reduce the occurrence embarrassing spontaneous erections for teen males
* Reduce the number of unwanted wet dreams for young men
* Relieve menstrual cramps


It is held in many mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self-worth.

Masturbation in males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer.

Masturbation can also be particularly useful in relationships where one partner wants more sex than the other—in which case masturbation provides an outlet for the unsatisfied partner.

Solitary masturbation carries no risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. However mutual masturbation involving both a man and a woman can result in pregnancy only if semen contacts the vulva.

The only side effects recorded are that repeated masturbation may result in tiredness or soreness. Notice that there is nothing on this list that says anything about going blind or being struck by lightening. The term masturbation has always conjured up visions of damnation, self-defilement, mental illness and poor health. Of course nothing could be further from the truth.


The built-in notion of shame and uncleanliness implied by the word has literally given masturbation a bad name—even though medical authorities have established for decades that masturbation causes no physical or mental harm to adults or children.

Even the word masturbation is in itself an expression of ancient philosophical distaste for the act as it is a combination of f two Latin words, manus (hand) and stuprare (defile), thus “to defile with the hand.”


For men who are frequent masturbators, the volume of ejaculate that they produce is temporarily reduced after multiple ejaculations until normal seminal volume is regained in a day or so.

Perhaps the most common negative side effect is the guilt that people from a socially conservative or religious background and other sensitive experience during or after masturbation.

The fact that this important source of sexual pleasure is still regarded by some with guilt and anxiety is partly due to ignorance of the fact that masturbation is not harmful and partly due to centuries of religious teaching that the act is a one-way ticket to Hell. Shame about masturbation is particularly prevalent among women who are often taught that their bodies are dirty and shameful well before the onset of puberty.

Screw that. Go for it!

Happy Endings. "

very insightful stuff.
if you haven't checked cam4 out yet please do so...i am in love with the site. <3 =)

now if you will excuse me, i think i am going to go off and masturbate myself now!

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

exhaustion

well i hope you all had a great christmas.
i sure had a busy holiday, i feel like i may have gained a few pounds(to be honest, i have :[ it was a nonstop eating festival)
i haven't been sleeping well, not sure why as i have been totally spent and lack any energy during the day. i feel like if i truly go to bed and get a good night's sleep, i could probably sleep for 3 days straight.

to top things off this motherfucking blizzard!
it sure was fun driving with near no visibility with cars who shouldn't even be out in this weather. (please if you plan on driving in a blizzard, get a 4x4/awd capable vehicle)
the shoveling...self explanatory.

sure the aftermath of the holidays may be over, but wait we have new year's coming up...whoop dee doo.

any resolutions come to mind?

i shall share mine with you soon, for now back to work!

fuck, i am horny...still a virgin. :\

Thursday, December 23, 2010

almost on the eve of christmas!

hello guys,

i apologize for going so long without posting anything but my life has been pretty hectic lately. just finished up with my final work of the semester this afternoon and i am already back at work tying up some loose ends before the holiday starts. i think i have been averaging 3 hours of sleep per night...i feel and look like a wreck.

this christmas all i want is some rest, and rest i shall get...i will be staying in and away from the cold. please wake me up when it's 2011. =)
kidding aside i really hope to have a fresh start in 2011, i have had my share of ups and downs this year but overall i think 2010 was amazing!

i bid you all a merry christmas and happy holidays!


<3
-nyc virgin

Monday, December 13, 2010

finals week.

it's going to be a busy week for me as i have my upcoming finals, mix that in with work and it's just going to be hectic.

i will try to update when i have some free time.

for now just imagine "Chestnuts Roasting On An Open Fire" performed by the late great Nat King Cole playing in the background.

ah doesn't that bring you warm thoughts and wishes?

excited!

stay tuned for a special guest post from my friend over at the awesomeslut blog. ;]

Friday, December 10, 2010

gloomy days

wow it's december already...sure doesn't feel like it huh?

with christmas looming over us in just about 2 weeks i can't help but feel a bit down.
if you know me i will be the last guy to admit that things aren't so peachy because i try to go on about with a positive outlook in my life. but really there is so much going on around this world that can bring us down. the media does nothing but report about the negative aspects of our human nature. we are surrounded by failing economy, people are unemployed and taking advantage of the programs that the government has set up to help the truly needy. it's sad, why are humans such selfish and ego-maniacal creatures?

i'd like to issue a challenge to all of you out there.
instead of thinking about presents you want this christmas, think about contributing to your local community, whether it be through some form of charitable donation or volunteer work.

instead going out to shop for your ipads, iphones, playstation 3s, xbox kinects, kindles, nooks, laptops, hdtv 3d tvs...just save your money. these things are just luxuries, not necessities in life.
they say, if you give a little you will get back much more in return.

i believe in good karma, spread a little love this holiday season and make others happy and you shall receive the same love in return.

well i guess that's all i have to say on this matter.

happy holidays!

-nyc virgin

Thursday, December 9, 2010

cold

its fucking freezing today!

what i wouldn't give for a warm naked female to share the covers with me today.
seriously i need to stop dreaming of romping with women, the end results in a stained pair of boxer shorts and more sexual frustration as the day drags on.

what's a guy to do?
my patience is really wearing thin.

off to class right now, more to come later!

-nyc virgin

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

i'm back!

sorry for the long break from writing, i apologize for not being able to update my blog. i have been sick and without internet connection since the thanksgiving break.

but i am on the mend and feeling much better now!
i am ready to keep updating daily for those of you who want a daily dose of the nyc virgin.

i know this is long overdue, but how was everyone's thanksgiving?
i hope you all had a wonderful time with your family and friends, i spent my turkey day sick in bed, i really didn't get a chance to enjoy the turkey at home.
with that said, did anyone go black friday shopping? i bet a lot of you waited in the rain and cold for a chance at those large hdtvs and other electronics and etc.

the holidays, what does it stand for anymore? are we all so consumed with the commercial aspect of the holidays? why is everyone obsessed with holiday shopping when our economy is down proverbial shit pipe? i urge all of you to just enjoy the company around you this holiday season and cherish your loved ones because life is very unpredictable. once you spend time with your family and friends you will forget about all that shopping that has us going broke for the holiday season. you don't need to spend an exorbitant money to have a great time together with friends.

on another note, i want to coin a new term for women who think that they are above the world and other men. those nasty girls who have the looks but have no personality at all. you girl are a..."bitchot." (pronounced bitch-hot)

that is all for now peeps, stay tuned for more!
by the way, i hope you guys enjoyed memphis skies' post...thank you for filling in for me while i was gone.

-nyc virgin

p.s. i had another fucking wet dream this morning...my boxers were soaked in my cum, definitely not a pleasant experience to wake up to despite the orgasm and ejaculation part.

sigh.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Hello there...

The ill NYCVirgin handed me the reins for this time around and asked me to write a little something-something for his readers curious about his sexual virgin. As daunting of a challenge this is, I was happy to accept his offer and I am willing to share a part of my sexual history/adventures with you.

I’m a 24-year-old woman trying to live out my dream in New York City. Unlike the NYCV, I am not a virgin (I only lost my virginity this past May) but I am still new to the sex game, only doing the deed five times. I’m still shy, don’t feel 100% fantastic with my body and half of the time, don’t know what to do with a naked man standing in front of me. I didn’t lose my virginity in the wisest (or safest) of ways- I met a man off the internet and we hooked up in his gorgeous Cobble Hill apartment. But I have no regrets. I was ready, physically and mentally, to have sex and I’m glad that I did it.

I don’t know the percentage of you readers who are virgins (I know that you are out there!) but don’t worry, you will get laid. Whether you’re 16 or 46, it will happen eventually. Just have some faith and don’t be expecting sex to happen right around the corner. Take in to account this story: I used to have this bright red cardinal that hung out alone in the tree outside my apartment. I often wondered, in a city full of dull, average, forgettable birds, how will this unique one ever find another? The answer and the metaphor is: just be who you are. It didn’t seem to mind being alone, just ate the bugs it liked, hung out in the trees it liked, flew around and did whatever made it happy. A month later, another cardinal showed up, and the rest is history. They’re probably still banging right now. So, just live your life. That sexual someone will come along eventually. It's a little known fact- but they always do.