revelations and resolutions.

i have come to realize that being a virgin sucks. (go figure)
while i have not minded staying a virgin for so long, i do notice that i complain to myself a lot. "why am i still a virgin?" "why can't i find a girl?" and other nagging questions i pose to myself.

rather than complaining, i will make a resolution: to further better myself in my interactions with women.

i seriously need to stop being so shy in person.
there is another thing, i guess you can call this a two part resolution.

i want to get rid of this notion of a resolution...it's just something that we pose to ourselves to get ourselves over the proverbial hump of a new year.

if you were serious about bettering yourself you wouldn't have waited until a new year to start doing whatever it was you set out to do for yourself.

let's just have a set of goals and slowly chip away at them. not only will it be more satisfying when you finally do reach your final destination but you won't be cheating or lying to yourself.

so with that said, i bid you all a happy new year! i wish you all good health and happiness in the coming year.

goodbye 2010, bring on 2011!

-nyc virgin

"New Year's is a harmless annual institution, of no particular use to anybody save as a scapegoat for promiscuous drunks, and friendly calls and humbug resolutions." -Mark Twain